Dear Ruby, About a year ago I met someone online completely by accident. It started as casual conversation. At the time I was going through […]
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Trapped and Ashamed
Dear Ruby, I never thought I would find myself in this situation. I have always considered myself responsible with money, but over the last few […]
Sexless
Dear Ruby, I have been in what I consider to be a sexless marriage for a long time. It’s probably mostly my fault, much of […]
WIFE MATERIAL: What Men Say They Want vs What Actually Works
Dear Ruby, I notice that numerous women, generally of ethnic decent, advertise themselves a potential wives with traditional values. Things like cooking, cleaning and keep […]
Why Attraction Has Nothing to Do With Looks:
Most people think attraction starts with appearance. It doesn’t. Attraction often starts with something much quieter—the way someone makes you feel during a simple interaction. […]
Ruby’s Diary: Learning to Steady Yourself
There’s a quiet truth most of us discover the hard way:life doesn’t stop being difficult, but we can learn how to meet it differently. Lately, […]
Loving in the Unknown
Dear Ruby, I have been communicating with a woman online that contacted me after I made teasing comments on her Face Book posts. She uses […]
Dear FB Love
Dear Ruby, I have been married for more than 30 years. I am having an online relationship with a 25 year old. I like to […]
Dear Upset from Michigan
This situation can be worked out with patience, honest communication, and willingness from both sides to listen and understand each other. Often, the hardest part […]
Dear Confused
Dear Ruby, I am unsure how to handle a situation in my relationship. I care deeply, but I feel confused about what to do next. […]